Henny Kupferstein grew up in the Belz sect of ultra-orthodox, Hasidic Jews in Borough Park, Brooklyn. From early childhood, she felt like a misfit. After getting married to a virtual stranger at age 18, Henny began secretly rebelling against the confines of her sect. When she was 34, a startling diagnosis would lead her on a dramatic path away from the Belz and everyone she knew, including her four children.
You can read about Henny’s work with autistic kids and her book, Perfect Pitch in the Key of Autism, on her website.
Music for this episode was composed by Nicholas DePrey, Chris Colin, Seth Samuel, and Henny Kupferstein.
![Henny Kupferstein, age 18, with her paternal grandparents on her engagement day.](https://ww2.kqed.org/news/wp-content/uploads/sites/10/2017/04/engagement-800x925.jpg)
![Henny Kupferstein concealed by her veil on her wedding day.](https://ww2.kqed.org/news/wp-content/uploads/sites/10/2017/04/wedding-163-800x624.jpg)
![Henny and her husband on their wedding day.](https://ww2.kqed.org/news/wp-content/uploads/sites/10/2017/04/wedding-191-800x1130.jpg)
![Henny Kupferstein and her four children in front of the New York Aquarium seven years ago, on the last day that she saw them. Her children were 12, 10, 5 and 15 months at the time.](https://ww2.kqed.org/news/wp-content/uploads/sites/10/2017/04/2010_March_NY_Aquarium-800x1125.jpg)
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