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John R. McCoy: Running in My Forties

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For John R. McCoy, running started off as just a hobby, but now it’s developed into a form of meditation.

In the last six months, I’ve found my way back into a running habit. It used to be just a hobby, an exercise I powered through in response to a stressful day. But returning to running has helped me to notice how the power of my thoughts impact how I experience the world.

At the start of my run, when my body is cold despite warm-up stretches, and the repetitive motion of lifting my legs and planting my feet can feel out of sync, I anticipate misery for however long the run will last. This feeling shows up in my stomach as an ache, as if someone threw rocks into a dryer. My heart beats faster, and with each step I think, “Can I really go on like this?”

Panic sets in, and I think to myself, “Who are you kidding, this is not going to end well; you might consider stopping before you fail.”
When these thoughts and feelings show up, I distract myself by identifying all the yellow objects around me – street signs, car blinkers, and the yellow pigment in a tree’s lime-green leaves.

While the feeling of anticipation eventually goes away, it can and frequently returns. It returns when I’m in the final stretch and questioning if I can make it to the finish line.

During these moments, I try to bring myself back to the present. What’s around me that I can enjoy?  Eventually, my mind forgets about the anticipation and doubt, and I return to the familiar rhythm and pace I find rejuvenating.

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Running at 42 is an opportunity to practice noticing that discomfort is not permanent and can be worked through. The brief moments where I question if I can finish or work through a temporary ache have taught me that I’m not brittle like candy and won’t snap so easily. It’s a reminder of my resilience; that I can take on whatever comes my way in strides.

With a Perspective, I’m John R. McCoy.

John R. McCoy leads external relations and community engagement initiatives in higher education. He lives in Concord.

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