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Strategies for Building Deeper Relationships with Students through Academic Content

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Excerpted from “Teach More, Hover Less: How to Stop Micromanaging Your Secondary Classroom” by Miriam Plotinsky. Copyright © 2022 by Miriam Plotinsky. Used with permission of the publisher, W. W. Norton & Company, Inc. All rights reserved.

Targeting deeper relationship-​building in our lesson planning should have a strong tie-​in to what we want students to achieve. We run into difficulty when we do not make a clear connection between how teachers and students interact with each other and the way that relationships play into the establishment of a safe learning space. We are very aware of the need to make students comfortable in class, particularly at the start of an instructional period, but sometimes that priority does not bear out for the remainder of the class. 

Teach More, Hover Less book coverAs an illustration, during a visit to a middle school social studies department meeting, I was asked to weigh in on how the teachers were developing connections with students. The teachers, all sitting in a circle, shared some beautifully creative ideas with one another. For example, one teacher played a game in which students needed to agree on a common definition of soup. If any liquid food in a bowl was defined as soup, did chocolate sauce count? Or if the food was defined by certain other parameters (e.g., could be eaten with a spoon), was cereal really soup? Was temperature significant? The teacher shared the enthusiasm of her students for this conversation and how lively the debate became as the class worked toward a shared understanding. 

After the meeting, I met with the department chair to debrief. To begin, we agreed that the teachers were dedicated to creating a safe learning space for their students and that they had excellent ideas in terms of how to achieve this goal. We also agreed that while the opening activities were a lot of fun, they did not necessarily connect to the lesson that followed. For example, I asked if the teacher doing the community builder on soup was teaching a unit focused on debate, because the activity could be an excellent way to prepare students to structure logical arguments, and the answer was no. More often than not, these opening warm-​ups teachers shared existed for the primary purpose of bringing students into the class period in a welcoming and enjoyable way. While getting students off to a good start is a worthy purpose and does help with building trust, does it accomplish the entire goal of building a relationship that continues to be meaningful once the learning has begun?

The problem with keeping a sense of rapport or connection separate from academic content is that students make a distinction in their minds between a teacher’s personal interest in them and the teacher’s belief that they can learn. They might think something like, “Mr. Jones likes me, but he knows I’m not good at math.” Aside from the obvious issue with any student feeling this way, these thoughts are usually hidden from the teacher, who thinks all is well. That is why we might think our students really like us or enjoy our classes, but when we give student-​voice surveys and they respond anonymously, their perceptions can sometimes emerge as startlingly unfavorable comments. 

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How do we break this cycle of misunderstanding and ensure that when we build trust in our classrooms, it goes beyond the surface level? How do we know for sure, both in what we observe and in what students share, that they know we believe in them as people and as learners?

When we work on implementing the second stage of hands-​off teaching by building trusting relationships that promote academic rigor and risk-​taking, we do not have to reinvent our methods from the ground up. Instead, we can think about how some of our most tried-​and-​true activators both align with the content we teach and promote strong relationships. The list below contains possible activity ideas that allow us to accomplish the joint goal of fostering meaningful connections with students while incorporating what we teach as it fits.

Details dump

Before teaching new content, put students into teams. Each team is given broad-strokes information about what the new learning is (i.e., topic, possible themes, etc.). In their teams, students must write down as many details or pieces of information about the content as they can collectively brainstorm within a specific timeframe When finished, each group posts its results. The team that “wins” has the highest number of accurate details. After the activity ends, the teacher can use what students already know to inform and tailor instruction.

Tweet it!

Using the Twitter 280-character limit, ask students to “tweet” a summarizer of the day’s lesson on a shared class document or board. These tweets can be discussed at the close of class or the opening of the following day’s learning, and the teacher can also use the tweets to check for understanding.

Love, love not

Ask students to share one element of the previous day’s lesson they enjoyed or benefited from and one they felt was not as helpful. This quick feedback method allows for more targeted planning as units proceed and also helps us gain a deeper understanding of how our students prefer to learn.

A picture is worth …

Display an image that somehow connects to the learning goal. Ask students to brainstorm a question or comment about how the image might relate to the topic or content at hand. Students can share their contributions any number of ways, and their responses will help guide the teacher to next steps.

20 Questions

To modify the popular road-trip game, one student thinks of a course-related topic or idea while the class takes turns asking 20 questions to determine the answer. After a few rounds, students are usually in a more engaged mindset for active learning.

What if?

Ask students to brainstorm a “What if?” question about course content. In history, it might be a change in an event. In English, it might be about a literary plot. In math, it could be a different pathway to solving a problem. Once students share their questions, the class can work on answering the “what if” scenarios in a variety of ways, either in groups or individually.

One thing

Ask students to think about the “it” of the day’s lesson, or the one most important idea they will take away. Students can record this in any number of places. It is the teacher’s decision to share out in that moment, or to use the responses in an activator the following class period.

All of these activities share some commonalities. The provided options work in multiple content areas, in multiple ways. They can be adapted to suit teacher or student preference, not to mention be conducted pretty much anywhere, from remote locations to a physical classroom space. These activities also help to build meaningful academic interactions and allow relationships to grow not just consistently but in conjunction with curriculum goals. Essentially, when we build activities that are both engaging and relevant into our instruction, we communicate a belief that we not only like the students in front of us but also believe in them —​ and that is far more powerful.

Miriam PlotinskyMiriam Plotinsky is an instructional specialist with Montgomery County Public Schools in Maryland, and the author of “Teach More, Hover Less: How to Stop Micromanaging Your Secondary Classroom.” Also a National Board Certified Teacher and certified administrator, she lives in Silver Spring, Maryland.

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